And here she is
Wisdom tells me Im nothing
Love tells me Im everything
Within the two, my life flows...
her journey
her love
her other voices
her and herself
Heartbeat of a Her
Friday, December 14, 2007 Anger is bad
6:22 pm
 I am sure we all have had moments where ppl around us say really hurtful and mean stuff, spouting outrageous comments when they are too overwhelmed with emotions. To be precise, anger.
And I am also sure, at the same time, we have been in that position, when we are too angry to think rationally and all we want to do is to let it out despite the brains saying, "Just keep your mouth shut. You are so going to regret what you're going to say."
And then everything is too late when one party is hurt badly with the painful words thrown at him/her. This person then gets angry and the cycle goes on and on.
Emotions are what which make us humans. Nonetheless, we need to have them under control and not the other way round. It is easier said than done, I know. I dont have that a sweet temper myself afterall.
How does this emotion of anger come about in the first place? Well, indeed there are many sources and causes. The ideal thing is to not focus on the problem which is causing all these anger but look beyond them and think about solutions together. Better still, weigh out if it is worthwhile for us to be angry over the matter because more often than not, we tend to think too much and waste time on things which eventually dont matter.
Life's short... lets not waste it. :)
"Being happy doesn't mean everything is perfect. It means you have decided to look beyond the imperfections."
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